If January was all about
planning, early February seems to have been all about getting things into
place, Including giving myself a week to mourn.
Then like a switch was hit in
the last few days I have been filled with creativity. My sewing
machine has been going none stop.
Okay well, not none stop. I
have also spent a lot of time with the people that heal my heart. Including
lots of babysitting Chester . (Tamika and Guy hope to open their cafe on Monday. More on that later.)
But, time with them, has me
filled with creative ideas. Abstaining from my goal of opening an online store has been useful, it also seems that creating distance allowed me to actualize what I do and do not want.
For a long time, research has pointed to happiness as
being the ideal state to create in. So I guess I had to find my happy.
For me I had to :
1. Let go of negativity. Learn
to forgive and forget.
2. Live in the present.
Actually be with and concentrate on the now.
3. Treat everyone with
kindness. Being careful with my words. Speaking gentler, kinder, and wiser. And
listen more than I talk.
Obviously still working on my
list, but for now it seems to be working.
And yes I know there are things
like eating healthy and exercise, but lets face it no way I am going to do that
shite. I am too busy eating chocolate and playing with Jarvis.
How do you find your happy?
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